Frequently Asked Questions

Are all women in the Catalogues real?

Yes, all our women are real. These women already paid for the possibility to place their ad free of charge, so that men will be able to contact them directly, without any extra payments and delays.

A woman in my country usually looks for men who are living locally, but what about Russian women? Will they be interested to be with someone so far away? How can I be sure that if relationship will work out, she will want to move from her home and her family?

We are only presenting women on our pages that are serious looking for men abroad. They seriously want relationship and marriage. So, you should not worry about it, but just for your assurance, we suggest you to raise this question on the first stage of your communication, so that you both will understand clearly that it’s a lot of feelings that will be involved, and there is a lot of serious decision to be made.

I am 50 years old, but I want to find a young woman for a relationship. It was impossible to do in my country, so I decided to look for a Russian woman. I heard that age difference is no matter for them. Is it true and why?

Russian women usually prefer to have a husband who is older then themselves. It is considered that an older man will understand them better, will be able to appreciate his wife and support her, not only financially, but morally as well. Russian women mature intellectually quicker than Russian men. At the age of about 18-20 they are ready to create a family and have children. So, age difference is not a problem for Russian women. They feel more secure with men who are older by at least 5-10 years.

I want to make a good impression with my first letter to a lady I like, but I am not sure what should I write in this letter to somebody I don’t even know.

If you want to make an impression as a man with serious intensions, include your full name and date of birth, height and weight, your occupation and your status in your first letter. Don’t write how perfect you are and what material things you have in your life, just write why you chose precisely this woman, and why you want to know exactly her better. Include your picture of good quality, where it’s possible to see your face. We emphasize specially to include a picture. It means just as much for her as for you. Please avoid sending half naked pictures with the first letter - it makes very bad impression.

I have sent a letter to a lady I really liked, but she hasn’t answered back to me, should I give up, or try again.

First of all you have to remember that to have Internet at home is still a luxury thing for many Russians, so give her at least 3-4 days to answer back to you. If you didn’t receive an answer, try to send a small message - just do double check if she got your first letter. It could happen that letter was lost by an Internet provider and therefore didn’t know that you wrote to her.

What should I do if after some correspondence understands that this is not what I was looking for, and I want to end correspondence with a lady?

Be polite and don’t disappear without explanations. Our women are serious and they can be deeply attracted by you even after a few letters, so don’t break hearts and hopes. Write a letter and inform a woman about your decision. It will also allow the woman to focus her attention on men she wants to correspond with, without having bad feelings to you. Remember, you in a way represent the men in which country you come from. It’s easy to make stereotypes.

If   I write to some ladies, how many will answer back to me?

Usually you will get from 80 to 90% answers back.

I liked one of the ladies on your pages, but in her ad say that she is looking for a man till 45, I am 50 years old. What should I do?

We recommend you to write to her in spite of that. Everything is individual, so if you are determined and have serious intentions - it will depend on you if you will be able to conquer her attention. Just don’t give up on something you really want! (a good motto for life in general).

Is it OK to send money to the women I am writing with?

No, we strongly recommend you not to send any money or gifts to women you don't really know. First try to know a lady you are writing to, be sure that she is interested in you, not just you being a foreigner.